Gender Variance Group

So Ashley Hope and I started that Gender Variance Group and frankly it’s doing pretty well. I was hoping to change things up from just discussion to projects and maybe other types of activities. I think its important to do these things, it builds a sense of community. I think for us that even question…

International Women’s day

I believe the only way to live is in equality and that your genitalia should have nothing to do with what people expect from you.

Closeted?!

If a 3rd and 4th or even 5th gender were introduced in our society I would be interested to find out how many people would still transition. I have found the book “Gender Outlaw- On Men, Women, and The Rest of Us” by Kate Bornstein to be right on mark about gender and the rest of it.

Natural Body Transformation

or me, it would be okay to work out or find a job/hobby that would help shape my body in a way that would present who I really am. For me, I am something in between male and female, maybe including both.

GenderQueer

But when that menstruation happens I begin to almost feel confused, more confused than I do on most days.

BDSM for Trans?

Is it me…. or is there a severe lack of gender neutral terms in the BDSM community.

Genderqueer? Transgendered?

So when I hear someone say they are confused about my gender I want to say, “Well now you know how I feel!”

Change?

We are coming up on a new world, or at least most of us hope so. I feel like the world has been in a holding pattern for the past 8 years. We have just been coasting to get by with this awful president we currently have. Now Obama is going to take over the presidency and I find myself anxious, excited, and worried.

Xmas & Coming out!

So… I have to wait to come out because I don’t want to ruin people’s holidays. Although I already told my brother that I was trans. I think this is actually good because it will give me more time to define and figure out exactly how I feel about my gender issues. Currently its like…