Drag!! Izzy Ahee Debut Performance!

So I had weeks to prepare for my first show as Izzy Ahee. I chose George Michael as my opening show because it showed who I was in a way. Fabulous sexy man…

Seriously!?

Each time I analyze social gender I come to the obvious question every single time… “Why does it matter?” There is no need for gender in our social world, really there just isn’t. It is just another form of discrimination, like race and orientation.

Trans Sisters

Come out sister and embrace the babies, they NEED YOU!

Don’t let the transition lead you back into the closet!!

So for my cis sisters, lets support them, they need us. We stand stronger in large numbers and we certainly have information to help them and trans sisters bring messages for us.

All feminists, regardless of your gender need to share hands. We need to stand up and say , “Fuck Gender, who needs it!”

Transman

Anyway as far as extreme on either side of the gender spectrum makes me feel constricted, tied up, or even fake in some ways. Often if someone is too much of one side I find that I feel that their fake, maybe I am judgmental, but I don’t trust everything they do for that reason. For me, I just can’t stay on either side to heavily I get wiggly and I can’t sit still. I always break the gender rules – yah I am a butch gardener farmer type, yah I plant little flowerly fairy gardens!! See I break them all the time, I just keep stretching out and crossing boundaries.

Gender Variance Group

So Ashley Hope and I started that Gender Variance Group and frankly it’s doing pretty well. I was hoping to change things up from just discussion to projects and maybe other types of activities. I think its important to do these things, it builds a sense of community. I think for us that even question…

Gender Variance

This lead me to the free expression of my feminine as I see it. I am a woman, I have a vagina that has given birth to my now 20yo son. Biologically speaking, I am a woman and have shared a body with another living being, I have felt a life spring from within me and venture out into our world.

International Women’s day

I believe the only way to live is in equality and that your genitalia should have nothing to do with what people expect from you.

Closeted?!

If a 3rd and 4th or even 5th gender were introduced in our society I would be interested to find out how many people would still transition. I have found the book “Gender Outlaw- On Men, Women, and The Rest of Us” by Kate Bornstein to be right on mark about gender and the rest of it.

My Gender is Queer

Today, on the internet, I was shown a video that randomly pointed out how men and women shower, according to their gender.

GenderQueer

But when that menstruation happens I begin to almost feel confused, more confused than I do on most days.

BDSM for Trans?

Is it me…. or is there a severe lack of gender neutral terms in the BDSM community.